Short answer
Many husbands become hesitant during pregnancy — afraid of hurting the baby, unsure how to touch a changing body, or overwhelmed by becoming a father. It’s rarely about attraction, and gentle conversation usually helps.
Why this happens
- Fear that sex could harm the baby.
- Uncertainty about how your body feels now.
- Anxiety about becoming a parent.
- Seeing you primarily as ‘mother’ for a while.
What helps
- Share what your doctor has said about safety.
- Tell him what kind of touch and closeness you’d like.
- Reassure him that you still want to feel desired.
- Spend time together as a couple, not only planning for the baby.
When to see a doctor: always follow your doctor’s guidance on intimacy during pregnancy, especially with any complications.
Go deeper: Touched out: why new mothers pull away →
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