Online · Private · Since 2015
Couple counselling online in India.
For couples who love each other but feel stuck — in distance, in the same fight, in a bedroom that’s gone quiet. Private online sessions with relationship and intimacy consultant Rupesh Ojha, made for the realities of Indian relationships: joint families, arranged marriages and the pressure to keep things looking perfect.
Book a sessionFree WhatsApp chat firstFirst name is enough · Hindi or English · LGBTQ+ affirming
Why couples come
You might recognise one of these.
Intimacy has faded
Physical closeness has slowed or stopped, and talking about it only leads to fights.
One pushes, one pulls away
The more one partner reaches, the more the other withdraws — the pursuer–avoider cycle.
Partners became parents
Since the children arrived, you feel like co-parents and roommates, not a couple.
An old hurt is still there
Trust was broken, or something said years ago still sits between you.
Love, but no spark
You care deeply, get along well — and the attraction has quietly gone.
Arranged, still strangers
You married someone you barely knew and closeness hasn’t come yet.
How it works
Simple, private, online.
1. Say hello
Start with a free WhatsApp chat — one or both of you. Ask anything first.
2. Have a session
Video or voice, from anywhere in India or abroad. We find the pattern behind your distance instead of arguing about who’s right.
3. Leave with steps
Specific changes you can start the same week — and an honest word if something needs a doctor.
Plain prices
Sessions and fees
First conversation
A private WhatsApp chat to see if this is right for you.
Pattern Clarity Call
30 minutes online — identify your pattern and next steps.
Deep Decode Session
Extended session with a written roadmap afterwards.
Partnership Track
Four weekly sessions, priority WhatsApp access, monthly review.
Questions couples ask
Do both partners need to join?
No. Many couples start with one partner. When one person changes their side of a pattern, the relationship often shifts. Both are always welcome.
Is online couple counselling effective?
For most relationship and intimacy patterns, yes — and many couples find it easier to open up from home.
What language are sessions in?
Hindi or English, whichever you’re comfortable with.
How is this different from marriage counselling?
We focus on the hidden behavioural patterns behind distance and low intimacy, not just communication tips.
What if one of us has a medical issue?
If something needs a doctor — erection problems, pain, hormones — I’ll tell you honestly and point you to the right specialist.
LustDecoded offers relationship and intimacy guidance, not medical treatment. In distress? Call Tele-MANAS 14416 (free, 24/7).